@Dalcyanne: Thanks. I always appreciate an objective opinion. I do have issues when I think about our future together. I have no idea if I can live with him. I'm going to have to think about this some more!
I've had a best guy friend for about 10 years now. We've known each other since HS and run in the same circle. Whenever the idea of us as a couple comes up, we each safely revert to #3 above.
What happens if you want to try? How do I make that move without getting crushed by rejection? Argh.
@hej hej: Yeah, I think he was holding back about he felt about some musicians. I guess he didn't want to burn any more bridges.
I loved how honest he was about his addictions and insecurities. Also, I really liked that he wrote Wonderful Tonight about his wife taking so long to get ready.