Seeking a connection is just that, people do it with all things.. sports, cars, gossip, church, video games, etc. Depressing media .. from blues to poetry, from painting to anime.. people seek connection when they need it most, for the depressed it can make them feel better to feel like you're not the only one with those feelings. Not to mention that the people who create those things, the feeling of connection they get from those you consume it.. eventually all those connections come together, and you do feel better. For some things like that help, for other's it doesn't. But blaming media is like blaming Ford for making a shitty car when you Escort dies at 120k miles, because rarely changed the oil.
Your advice to ignore depression and "don't be selfish", isn't going to help very many people; especially those who feel disconnected.
Cold sweat beads across his domed forehead, down his temple, tickling the tiny hairs on his ear. A sudden rush of fresh Vermont air fills his lungs as his brain commands his body to give him more oxygen, waking his wife. She grabs his arm with concern, "What is it dear?". Dick turns to her and in a gruff but hurried voice saying, "Joanna, I just had the weirdest dream"...
Moral of the story, grammar counts sometimes, especially with a group of strangers.. and if you think you're clever, you're probably not.
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